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Original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/Nx2tcYDeFw Thank you to everyone who reached out. It helped give me (27M) much-needed perspective. I wanted to give an update. I wanted a fuller picture before making a decision on anything with my fiancée (29F). I knew her friends/bridesmaids would be a lost cause. I get along with them, but they're more of my fiancée's friends, and their group runs deep. They weren't going to talk at the expense of my fiancée. I asked Joss (29F) for more info and for evidence to her claims about my fiancée hooking up with someone on their girls' trip. She said my fiancée avoided talking about that particular trip, especially over text. Most of their arguments were in person, but she showed me texts from shortly after the trip where my fiancée confirmed hooking up with the guy. She texted how "it's in her rearview mirror" and she "doesn't need a lecture about the past. She's focusing on the future." I knew the possibility, and my fiancée already confessed to seeing other guys during our break, but idk seeing those texts made it real in a way it wasn't before. In the texts, she expressed regret, but it didn't make me feel better. I confronted my fiancée and I knew immediately by the look on her face. She came clean on everything. She thought Joss deleted the texts. Around the break, we were having serious talks about marriage. She started worrying she was missing out on stuff her single friends were engaging in. During the break, she sought validation from other guys and fooled around with that guy on the girls' trip. In her own words, she had a temporary high when he chased her but felt worse about herself post-hookup. She claims the break showed her what was important and that she wasn't missing out on anything. She was reassured we were right for each other. I hardly said anything to her. I mostly just listened. I was too numb for much else. She kept asking me to say something, but what was there for me to say? I felt her actions spoke enough for us both. She kept apologizing for stepping out. When I asked her why she wasn't upfront with me, she said she didn't want to lose me over her biggest mistake. Her position that Joss isn't being noble hasn't changed. I told her Joss's motive doesn't matter; the truth is the truth. She asked if I could find it in myself to move past this. She said she loves me and she's fully committed. I couldn't tell her what she wanted. I said it was best the wedding be put off and I needed space to sort my feelings. She was against postponing and proclaimed this didn't have to define us, and she's still the same woman I wanted to marry. She asked me not to give up on us. But the same way her mind was made about the break, my mind was made on postponing. It wasn't a choice. It wasn't so much a fight, more putting everything out there. She cried a lot. She rarely cries. It felt wrong to leave her crying. My first instinct was to comfort her, but I was too broken to fake it. I've been hurt before, but she hurt me in a way only she could. I know postponing the wedding is for the best. The reason why I didn't call it off entirely is because I'm way too much in my emotions right now. Hurt, anger, sadness, and somehow numbness. At all possible, I try to avoid making decisions lost in emotion. I need to clear my head. I was so sure of my course and our relationship. My fiancée was my partner in every sense. She was who I wanted to make a life with. Sometimes she'd act so superior about our relationship compared to those of her friends. I feel so stupid. She says she's still the same person I love. But the fact is she had a secret life I knew nothing about. I'm trying my best to understand that, but I'm at a complete loss. I'm not sure if I can move past this. All the guests have been informed of the postponement. Some questioned why, but I've been vague. I'm just too embarrassed. I feel bad for the guests too. Some with limited means already booked flights and hotels and took time off work for our wedding. That's how far we were in the homestretch. In some ways it doesn't feel like my life. We were just together, wedding planning and discussing the honeymoon. The honeymoon was a surprise destination for her, someplace she's always wanted to visit. Now we're here. Idk where to go or what the future holds. Thanks to everyone again for the support. It means a lot. TL;DR An update for: My fiancée's and my relationship has blown up after she had a bad falling out with her Maid of Honor who told me not only did my fiancée see other guys while we were on a break, but she also hooked up with someone on their girls' trip. My fiancée confessed to seeing other guys on the break but denies hooking up with anyone. She's accusing her friend of trying to sabotage our relationship. We fought, and I told her I needed space. Ever since, she's been pouring on so much affection. We're in the middle of wedding planning, and now this mess. I'm lost and questioning everything. Idk what to believe anymore. How do I move forward for myself and my relationship? submitted by /u/ThrowRALongshotFray [link] [comments]

So my husband and I have been married 10 years and have an 8 year old daughter, 4 year old son. He sometimes works from home snd usually in the kitchen if the kids are out. He did this earlier in the week and he left his laptop on the kitchen bench then went to play outside with the kids. I was cooking snd thougut I would just use his laptop for quickness to search for a recipe when a message from a colleague popped up on slack. She was thanking him for the coffee the other day. He hadn’t mentioned this to me and I’m fairly laid back about him grabbing coffee with colleagues make or female so didn’t think much. But seeing more I became concerned, they’ve been messaging ALOT- like multiple times a day, not work related. And I realised they had multiple 121 meet ups- walks, coffees, lunches whilst at work. He’s never mentioned any of these. They’ve put a lot of effort into planning these, blocking out diaries. talking about how excited the both are to meet up. I was gutted as I thought we had the type of marriage he would at least keep me updated on what he’s doing, who he’s with. It was horrible reading their messages- he doesn’t usually text or message much or really say much in texts- he’s one of those yeh/ok/ type of people. But with her he’s been writing long messages- and she’s been very flirty and playful- complimenting him- lots of flirty jokes etc. She’s about 10 years younger than me…I was so mad but haven’t confronted him yet as ive been getting my head around it all. I’m going to this weekend but just after some advice TL:DR- husband has been on about 5 work dates with a younger female colleague, daily messaging, very playful and flirty [link] [comments]

Note: A couple weeks ago, I posted this on another relationship subreddit, but I think it was removed quickly because it involved a breakup. TLDR: I am looking for advice/input on whether it would be fair to reach out to an ex (we broke up due to my job and my lack of energy) before I die of cancer. I have stage 4 pancreatic cancer. I’ve (mostly) come to terms with the fact I am likely to die from said cancer, and somewhat soon. And yes, I know I should be fighting, and I am still in treatment. However, based on what my doctors say and discounting any miracle developments in medicine, I don’t think I have all that much longer. A bummer, to be sure. That being said, I am also a sentimental and regret-filled human being, and I can’t help but wonder if there’s any catharsis to be had in reconnecting with an ex of mine. This ex is not my most recent girlfriend, or the one I was with the longest, but she was the only one I ever thought I could live the rest of my life with. We met at a very inopportune time, while very drunk and lonely at a birthday party of a mutual friend. I had just taken on a bunch more work, and was hitting my stride as an attorney. She was already settled into her job as a vet tech, and looking to settle down into a healthy relationship. We had a very loving, but troubled, relationship for a little less than two years, which ended about a year and a half ago. As my work load got increasingly full, it became more and more apparent that I was not what she needed. I would never be able to be the supportive, attentive partner when I was constantly stressing about my own work, or traveling for depositions. I knew this, but rather than being an adult and addressing that fact head on, I acted like everything would be fine. She was tired of me not having enough energy to do the bare minimum for our relationship. Even my sex drive had fallen through the floor during the worst weeks, just from the sheer stress and anxiety. Despite her attempts to coax me into attending therapy, I dismissed the idea, as I “didn’t have the time.” It seemed true at the time, but looking back now, it was bullshit. Rightfully recognizing that I was not putting the amount of work necessary into the relationship, she laid out an ultimatum. Either I devote more time/energy to self-care and the relationship, or she’d have to leave. I told her that I didn’t think I could devote anymore of myself to anything but work. I considered myself in “survival” mode, while I paid off the most predatory of my student loan debt. She didn’t like my answer, but we agreed to go our separate ways. We talked a few times after that, mostly around our birthdays and holidays. Looking back, not investing in that relationship is my biggest regret. The ones that came after that seemed hollow. I don’t think I ever loved someone the way I loved her. I want to let her know that, and maybe reconnect for these last few months. I also recognize that is a very selfish impulse. I’m looking for input here. What would you do in my place? In hers, would you want to know? Edit: Because I was a little bit vague about my intentions, I wouldn’t want to do anything but reach out and let her know how much the relationship meant to me, and how much I regret letting it break down. I wouldn’t expect her to come see me, or keep regular contact. I’ve since moved back in with my parents, in another state, while I was in treatment so I don’t think it would be plausible to strike up a relationship again, and I don’t expect to. submitted by /u/sumwhatz [link] [comments]

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